1242: 3 Ways We Make Life Shorter Than It Needs to Be (And How to Change It)
“I understand that if I'm too comfortable, it's time to grow. Because if I'm not growing, I'm dying. And if I'm dying, I'm going to live a miserable life.”
In this episode, Heather reflects on three big lessons she’s learned over the last 12 years since her cancer diagnosis, exploring the significance of facing fears, recognizing triggers as opportunities for growth, and the importance of self-reflection in embracing a fulfilling life. This conversation isn’t about recounting the many challenges she faced during healing; it’s about celebrating and learning to live more fully. Because the truth is, most of us are keeping ourselves so busy we can't experience growth, leaving us in a perpetual state of survival.
This conversation encourages us all to move past chronic suffering and to realise that we’re not dead yet, so let’s focus on feeling alive and energized while we’re still here.
What to listen for:
Leaning into your stories and the impact you want to make
Understanding that suffering isn’t living, and you're not dead yet
The reason why so many people live like the walking dead
“There's a huge difference between being emotionally uncomfortable and working through fear and resistance. That chronic suffering, chronic pain, isn’t living, and you're not dead yet. So you need to learn how to feel alive and energized while you're still alive.”
Why it’s essential to understand the feeling that you’re chasing
How Heather moved through the terror and the story that she was going to die
The importance of becoming the adult that you needed as a child
“I had to face my fear of death in order to learn how to face my fear of living. I had to train myself to run towards how I wanted to feel. That was scary to me because I had no evidence, but it started me on this catalyst of curiosity.”
Why the people triggering you the most are your greatest teachers
How to keep triggers from dictating your connections
The importance of taking responsibility for how you want to feel
Enjoy the excerpts Heather shared?
Be sure to grab a copy of her book, Dying to Be a Good Mother.
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